Getting mixed signals from a GUY FRIEND???? way confused…?
Well, we are NOT great friends. We talk and have inside jokes and i am friends with his girlfriend (i talked to her BECAUSE of HIM) and i talk to his girlfriend alot. And through his girlfriend i have talked to him on the phone .. when i was talking to her.
Now, i am not looking for a boyfriend in him. Just a straight out friend. But he sometimes he acts like he wants to be my friend and other times he doesnt.
For example, we talk some in the hallways.. if he is not alone. Then during lunch, i sit near him. He will look at me and talk but mostly he is talking to the other people at the table. Then, after school we sometimes talk. This is the part that really realy confuses me.
On some days, we will talk and have a great conversation. Have fun, we even watched a movie on his Portable DVD thing once. Then other times, he completely ignores me. He will talk to other people and not me. And when i do talk, he acts like it is weird that i talk to him.
What are some reasons?
You have to see this from his point of view. He has a girlfriend. Does he see you as a friend? absolutely!
You have to understand that guys who are in high school have billions of things on their mind, and I’m sure you do too.
When i was in High School i said high to some friends, and some i didn’t, and why should I? It’s understood that we are friends, so thats that.
March 13th, 2010 at 9:55 am
You have to see this from his point of view. He has a girlfriend. Does he see you as a friend? absolutely!
You have to understand that guys who are in high school have billions of things on their mind, and I’m sure you do too.
When i was in High School i said high to some friends, and some i didn’t, and why should I? It’s understood that we are friends, so thats that.
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March 13th, 2010 at 10:16 am
OMG! this is some soap opera shiz right here! he totally likes you. he’s trying to deal with it in as mature of a way as he can and he’s having conflicting feelings. stuff like "should I stay away from any temptation or can I handle being friends with a girl I like without flirting or otherwise pursuing her?" I’ve been there and the girl I liked even liked me back. she was my gf’s bff to boot! can you say drama? I would suggest confronting him about it by asking if he likes you (when you two aren’t around his gf) and, if he says no, fall back on the notion that he’s been sending off those signals. if he says yes, coerce him to tell his gf and try to deal with it with her. you telling his gf should be a last resort only and could/will harm any chance of a friendship ever developing.
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