I feel like my friend treats some of her friends better than others?

Including me… Every day I go on facebook and she is always posting on her one friend’s wall: Heyyy uhh I kinda love you!!!!!!! and its starting to get really annoying. She RSVP’ed to my friends party, and we called her for an hour straight because she wasn’t there, and she finally texted us: Oh hey, I’m at -insert friend’s name-’s house. We were all so mad that she would just not show up and act cool about it, so my friend took the phone, called her, and asked why she would go to her house, a girl she just started to befriend this year, instead of my friend’s house, who she’s been friends with for years. We asked why she would like her better and choose her over us, and she said she doesn’t like her as much as she likes us. We all knew she was lying so we hung up, but now she’s just being weird. I was helping my friends do a bake sale for a foundation, and we wanted her to come over to us, but she ignored us for this guy she calls a douche bag every day. Then there’s this one girl who she says she can’t stand, but she’s always with her and talking to her, by choice I might add.
Why would she completely turn her back on me and her friends that she says she likes and knows better?
Every time we ask her, she just ignores the question. We even pointed this out to her and she ignores it.

It seems like she’s slowly drifting away from you guys. She probably wants to hang out with some new people, but she’s not breaking off the friendship with you and your friends just in case something goes wrong. Almost like she’s using you, honestly. She also seems like a chronic liar, I mean, it’s pretty damn obvious she likes her new friend more then her old friends. Unless she starts being a better friend, just ignore her, seriously. No reason to be friends with someone who only keeps you around when she needs you. Maybe she’ll change and start being a better friend, and if not, then let her enjoy her new friends.

One Response to “I feel like my friend treats some of her friends better than others?”

  1. Addicted to Quack on April 26th, 2010 at 12:40 pm

    It seems like she’s slowly drifting away from you guys. She probably wants to hang out with some new people, but she’s not breaking off the friendship with you and your friends just in case something goes wrong. Almost like she’s using you, honestly. She also seems like a chronic liar, I mean, it’s pretty damn obvious she likes her new friend more then her old friends. Unless she starts being a better friend, just ignore her, seriously. No reason to be friends with someone who only keeps you around when she needs you. Maybe she’ll change and start being a better friend, and if not, then let her enjoy her new friends.
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